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jaya06
11-29-2006, 12:36 PM
Hi all,

I am very glad to share that my MIL got a tourist visa at Chennai on her 4th attempt.

Here is some background if anyone is interested:
My MIL is a widow aged 69yrs. She has 5 children married and settled in India and her second son (my husband) is living in USA for the past 8 yrs. We have greencard and a 5yr old child. My MIL lives alone in her home and leads a financially independent life on the rents she gets from her home. She came to USA on a 6-month tourist visa in 2001 and returned back in 4.5 months (we were on H1B at that time). She tried again in Jan-05, Feb-05 and June-06 (we got GCs by then). All the three times she was denied based on 214(b) rejection code (we weren’t sure if our GC was the reason for rejection). We weren’t as knowledgeable about tourist visa those days and hence did not prepare property affidavit or surveyor’s evaluation or family pictures or anything. The only thing we did was prepare a letter to the visa officer explaining all her family members and ties with India – this letter wasn’t seen by the VO all the 3 times. My MIL always took the original property documents (dated 50yrs ago when they bought the land) which showed the value of the property in a few thousands (vs. 40 lakhs in today’s rates). So, in a nutshell, the sponsor file was always perfect with all the necessary documents, but, we did not prepare my MIL’s documents very thoroughly and we learnt, in a hard way, that her documents are of utmost importance in the visa process.

Only after I started visitng and actively parcticipating in path2usa forums, I got a very good idea of the whole process and hence we prepared everything very thoroughly this time.

The things that we did differently this time:
1) My husband wrote a 2 page letter to the consulate officer explaining all his mom’s ties with India. He also attached copies of 2 pages of her passport which showed her I-94 from 2001 and copies of the return ticket to India showing that she left to India well before the expiry of her I-94.
2) My husband also contacted our senator who was very helpful. Senator’s office sent a request to Chennai consulate stating that the applicant will come for an interview on ‘so and so’ date and that she will bring ‘so and so’ documents along with her to show her ties. (We had to fax a list of all the documents to the Senator’s office so that they could include that list in their letter to Chennai consulate).
3) We evaluated the price of my MIL’s home by a surveyor. We attached the surveyor’s document (which is in English) to the original property document (which was in Telugu)
4) My MIL attached a picture from her grand son’s marriage where all her family members were there (except us who are in USA and who couldn’t attend the wedding). There were 5 couples sitting along with their children and grand children with my MIL in the middle.
5) We prepared a property affidavit stating all the properties that my MIL has (including things like jewelry, furniture, etc).
6) We organized the folders very well compared to how we prepared them earlier.

This is how the interview went:
The VO was a white American lady in her 50’s. The translator was a young gentleman in his 20’s probably.

All my MIL’s replies were in Telugu, but I am writing here in English so everyone could read.

VO: Welcome. Namasthe
MIL: Namaskaram
[My MIL first gave the folder with all the mandatory documents. She then immediately gave the folder with her support documents saying ‘this file has all the info about my home and property’. This file also has the 8x10 family picture with all my MIL’s children/grand children/great grand children. The VO looked at the property surveyor’s document, bank letter and then at the family photo]

VO/Translator: [After seeing 5 couples sitting next to my MIL in the picture], do you have 5 children?
MIL: I actually have 6 children, one son is in USA. These 5 children are here in India.

VO/Translator: Where do your 5 children live in India?
MIL: 3 of them live in XYZ and 2 of them live very close to my home in my hometown.

VO/Translator: Where does your son in USA live?
MIL: My son lives at XYZ (just city and state names)

VO/Translator: Where does your son work at?
MIL: [Could only tell the first 2 words (out of 4 words) of my husband’s employer name and was struggling with the reminder of the name and said ‘sorry, it is a long name. I don’t remember. You may look at the details in his folder’ and handed the sponsor’s folder to the translator]

VO looked at the first page of the sponsor’s folder for a minute and then browsed through the remaining pages very quickly. The first page is the letter from my husband to the VO explaining all the ties that my MIL has with India. His letter mentioned that he would like to take his mom to ‘so and so’ places in USA as he couldn’t take her to those places in 2001 since the weather was so hot at that time.

VO/Translator: So, you are going to USA to see more places?
MIL: Yes. My son couldn’t take me around to all the places 5yrs ago because of weather and also because of his hectic work schedule. He has been dreaming to take me around to those places this time around if I could make a trip in winter. I will stay in USA only for 2 months to visit those places and will have return back by Mon-yy for my grand daughter’s wedding.

VO and Translator were talking about something with pleasant appearance on their faces. My MIL wasn’t sure of what they were talking about and said the following:

MIL: I only want to go for 2 months coz ..….
Translator: [Interrupted my MIL’s sentence], the VO gave you a visa for 10-yrs so you can visit your son whenever you want.

MIL: Thank you. Should I wait for more time or is the interview over?
Translator: You can go home now. You will receive your passport in courier within less than a week.
MIL: Thank you. Namasthe.

My MIL said that everyone in the consulate office was very courteous and the VO appeared very pleasant and cool. There were about 6 couples and 6 individual applicants in front of my MIL. All of them were approved the visa except one of the single applicants. She said there were more than 10 counters actively interviewing and she guesses that they would have allocated one counter per visa category per language. Whole process finished in about 1.5 hrs – the interview being only less than 5 minutes.

The points that worked in our favour this time:
1) The senator’s letter would have made the VO look at all the documents and ask questions before she made her decision (Last 3 attempts, my MIL was interviewed by a white male who did not see any documents and asked only 2-3 questions and based his decision on those 2-3 answers + info in DS156).
2) The family picture was very helpful. Instead of keeping small 4x6 pictures in a separate album, it was my MIL’s idea to tack on the 8X10 picture to her other documents in her folder so that the picture will be seen right after the VO opens the folder.
3) Evaluating my MIL’s home by a surveyor would have helped too. The original property documents were only showing a value of few thousands when my FIL bought the land about 45-50yrs ago. The new surveyor’s document was showing 40+ lakhs.
4) My MIL can’t read English and hence we couldn’t explain her about any of the documents in the sponsor’s folder (ex: I134, pay stubs, employer name, bank name, our home address in USA etc). We told her to hand over the sponsor’s folder if they ask any question that is related to her son’s status in USA or her son’s employer or about his bank balance or I134 or whatever. We only asked her to concentrate on the documents that she is preparing from her end. Though she can’t read English, she got very well familiarized with ‘which document is for what?’ from her end. We also prepared her with how to answer each question. We did not bother her to by heart all the names and dates, but we asked her to concentrate on how she could explain that she has all the ties. She appeared to be better prepared than she was in her previous attempts.

By the way, the DD for Rs.2300/- was returned back as there is no more ‘visa issuance fee’. My MIL took it with her just to be on the safe side.

We are still waiting on her passport to find out the duration of her visa. We are truly hoping for a 10yr M visa as per the translator’s words. I will post the same message in ‘success stories’ once we get the passport.

If you have come this far, then I bet you have a family member’s appt coming up very soon. I hope I covered everything in this message, but, if you have any additional questions, please feel free to ask and I will reply back.

Good luck to every tourist visa aspirant!!

- Jaya.

Sri_Ya
11-29-2006, 03:42 PM
Congrats Jaya.

I have quick Question. Even my inlaws are appearing for visa coming monday.i asked them to take some family photos with them but not sure where they should place those photos. Could you please let me know the order how your Mother in law followed .

Appreciated

Thanks
Sriya

saisai
11-29-2006, 04:53 PM
Congrats!

jaya06
11-29-2006, 06:11 PM
Congrats Jaya.

I have quick Question. Even my inlaws are appearing for visa coming monday.i asked them to take some family photos with them but not sure where they should place those photos. Could you please let me know the order how your Mother in law followed .

Appreciated

Thanks
Sriya

Sriya,

My MIL put a family picture in the 'support documents' folder so that the visa officer sees it right after she/he opens the folder. My MIL first provided the folder with 'mandatory' documents and right immediately after that she produced the 'support documents' folder. Not sure if this order should be followed at every interview as each interviewer acts differently. My parents attended the interview in Aug-06 and they did not proactively show any documents unless asked. They too got a 10yr multiple entry visa. Hence, ask your inlaws to act according to the mood of the visa officer. Also, while they wait in the waiting room they can observe how others in front of them are dealing with the interview. My MIL doesn't know English and hence she thought they can read whatever they want from the folder instead of trying to ask her questions/documents which she may not be able to answer due to language constraint. Just ask your in-laws to act appropriate to the situation. Good luck to them!!

archana69
11-30-2006, 06:35 AM
congrats!

i had mailed u several times after seeing ur replies on this forum! but for my mail you never got a reply back may be my luck.!
anyways my mom has a interwiew on dec1st. she has been rejected 2 times in the past. my dad is not accompanying her last 2 times neither did he..pls give me what documents should my mom take pertaining to my dad.and what to answer when asked about him.
i have also applied with her this time.
pls wish us best .
thanking u,
archana.

Sri_Ya
11-30-2006, 07:32 AM
Thank you Jaya.

jaya06
11-30-2006, 09:30 AM
congrats!

i had mailed u several times after seeing ur replies on this forum! but for my mail you never got a reply back may be my luck.!


Hi Archana, sorry to see that I never replied to you. It must be a pure overlook from my side and nothing else (OR) I would have read the message but I may not have an answer for the questions that you had posted.


what to answer when asked about him.

You mother can say that he can not accompany her due to his job (OR) business (OR) properties that he has to take care of (OR) unmarried children to take care of (OR) old aged parents to take care of etc. The interview result will not be affected based on your father's travel because it is just his individual preference to not travel, but your mother must put it in a proper way with a valid reason. Your father staying back in India is a great tie for your mom. She can also take documents of your father's properties. Also, your mom can take a photo copy of your dad's passport to prove that he never applied for a visa to any country and hence will stay back in India waiting for his wife - which will be a valid reason for your mom to return back to India.

i have also applied with her this time.
I did not get it. Are you also applying for a tourist visa along with your mom?

More tips: It may help if your mom takes the documents of any property that is on her name along with the pictures of the land/home/shop. She can also take her family pictures taken along with the people residing in India.

Since the interview is tomorrow, don't bother your mom with a lot of tips in the last minute. Just let her relax and attend the interview confidently. I wish your mom the very best in this visa venture. Please write us back tomorrow with the result.

Good luck!!

kirankod
11-30-2006, 03:25 PM
Jaya,

Congratulations!!! And thanks for all your feedback and helpful suggestions in this forum.

kiran

jaya06
12-02-2006, 07:45 AM
All,

We just received my MIL's passport by Bluedart. She got a 10yr Multiple entry visa.

Thank you all for the replies and support. This is a great forum!!

I am going to buy visitor's medical insurance for my MIL from this forum - I did the same for my parents' recent travel too. I think this is a great way to support the forum.

- Jaya.

mat120
12-02-2006, 12:44 PM
Congratulations!

Murali
12-02-2006, 12:51 PM
Jaya
Congratulations !

Thanks for your concern and showing support.
I appreciate you and all other users like you, who not only learn from this fourm, but also activaley help other with genuine information.
Feel free to keep providing your feedback to improve this website, content and any thing else what each of you can think off.
I on behalf of path2usa wish all the best for your parents and relative's trip to USA.