Please help very urgent - Life and death

[nvr]

I am married in Apr 2003. I landed in USA during Apr 2003 with my husband.
My husband sent to me India for visiting in Nov 2003.
Right now I am in India.

I was frustated and shocked because I received divorce notice from my husband.
Local lawyer (on behalf of my husband) sent notice with some reasons for divorce.

Now I would like to quickly land in USA and talk to my husband. But I heard that my ITIN number applied for cancellation through my husband.
Is it really possible to do like that? or they are threatning me?

we faced very very common problems after marriage. Those problems are very silly and even if I reproduce here you will resist.

I have three questions.
1. I am not sure whether my husband cancelled my VISA
and ITIN. If it has done, will it be happened
immediately or will it take some time to process. If so,
I will come down to USA and talk to my husband.
Please advise.

2. Will there be any questions at POE?

3. At this situation what I have to do?

I appreciate your help and remember forever.

[Anthony]

Hi,
To my knowledge, If your visa is valid you can come to USA, it will not be a problem.
Even if you have to face some problems at POE or somewhere else which you don't know now , Its a risk worth taking. At the most you will be sent back to India.
I would suggest you to come here if your visa did not expire till now and talk to your husband.
Good Luck,
Anthony

[AddyCat429]

OMG! Im so sorry this happened to you. I really dont have any answers for you but I did want to say that I will keep you in my prayers and I hope that you get everything worked out. Please do let us know what happens!!

[Nitin]

First of all sorry to hear that. There should not be a problem at POE . They are telling crap and second thing you are not divorced ,legally married. If you are divorced then it should be a problem. Try to come ASAP and resolve issues.

Good Luck then.

[vprakash]

Hi
i am soory to hear so ,but be brave to solve it .
as long as visa is valid according to dates in ur passport u can come to USA,it cannot be cancelled just beca'z ur husband want it,and ur ITIN number has nothing to do with ur entry to USA it is used for filing tax returns by ur husband and to cancel it he has to produce the proof of divorce so please dont be worry just come down and resolvethe misunderstandings.
ALL THE BEST again BE BRAVE

[surajsri]

Dont be sorry. Screw that guy. #@!#!

[deeps]

hey,
I am sorry to hear this but I know exactly how it feels like. If u are still in this forum, here is my advice.. COME RIGHT BACK .
I want to let you know that this happened to me in August 03, after my husband took my green card & everything sending me to India on vacation. I couldn't return when I got the divorce papers & was shocked & helpless.

But, I fought back..First, I had to get a divorce lawyer..then the fight began..got him to file a motion for the return of green card.. This helped me at the US CONSULATE, where I applied for lost green card. I got here in Jan. 04 & have since then contested the divorce & got everything I was entitled to receive as spouse during the 2 yr. marriage.

Got divorced last month (I YR. AFTER HE FILED)..when he thought it would be just a piece of cake, since I was out & couldn't contest..& only a matter of paper work..Well, I proved otherwise..& I NOW HAVE MY LIFE BACK IN CONTROL..even though he refused to return my personal belongings, which I didn't expect to send them to India..

[sanjcher]

go back right now, go go go. run. go there beat the crap outta him with a broom stick (the indian way lol) dont kill him, just beat him up for doing such a horrible and cheap thing. he didnt even have the guts to face u. drive a toyota or honda over him and pour rice all over him. lol just kiddin. hope everythin goes well for u.

[Neo2005]

You should come to USA. ITIN no. has nothing to do with your VISA. you should come to USA and kick your husbands ass.

[riba9]

u want to come to USA to reolve misunderstandings with him!! that's crazy!
when things come to such a pass, there is nothing left to resolve.

amny of the posts here r right. u should come to USA and spit at his face and say that u will not take any of the crap he has dished out. ask him to pay for ur return fare and leave him to start ur life afresh.
i understand u r in a difficult situation, but if u plan to continue to stay with this guy, u will make a big mistake.
good luck and get going!

[EvEiL]

go back ASAP GET A LAWYER N smack the shitt outa him n if u get divorced in a good state get moeny frm him etc! rip him off hoiw dare he!! i hope he ends up being with a FAT KAAALI WHO WUD SMACK HIM and turn him into a battered up skinny loser who wud die of starvation!!! i hate such guys fkin ruining others life!!!
u go girl!!!
show him some desi kuri power!

[swami]

Seems these suggestions are from less than average individuals.

You took a one side story and started making your dangerous decisions. You are letting her complicate the matter. Only it shows how irrational you are.

This guy do not love her and she wants to get it by force. Her marriage looks a whole lot of money making game instead of a marraige that works based on love that happens based on mutual understanding.

You are suggesting her to take revenge. One needs to be civilized to understand that a marriage between individuals must be based on bond of love and NOT based on such cruel principal of considering the husbad as source of money and when things goes wrong take revenge on him/her. Consider him/her as life like you -- a human.

If she loves that man and can show it, is the only weapon will bring the guy back to her. All your evil suggestions (most probably comes from womens) only makes sure that she will never win his heart to get back to the marraige with real love.

Thinking of taking revenge only prove about the individual. It is better to investigate as to why the marriage is broken. Try to repair it with the reason it has broken instead of revenge.