confusion

[sumil]

Iam really confuesd of getting a baby in US .........I am
on H4 visa and i feel very bored sitting all alone in the home.I think that atleast if i have a child, i can comeout of this depression and will have my own work to do . I love kids very much.Is it a problem having a baby in US ?

[Suman]

There is no problem in having baby in USA, why do you think so.
As far as your boring is concern, get hooked up with some voluntry or charity work, make few firiends, go to Library...do some work .. if you are computer litrate you may get some work from home kind of thing..etc

good luck
Suman

[sunil]

hi,
Iam the same sunil .Thanks a lot for ur suggestion, but the problem is , iam not a california resident yet and i even thought of joining some community college, but the fees will be more as iam a nonresident.iam learning driving and so now i can't go alone to library ,b'cause my husband takes the car.I don't have not even a single friend in my apt.everything has messed up.

The only hope which i can see the point u made of doing some home kind of thing.iam a computer literate, but can i earn something from home? Are there any kind of home earning things? If yes , please please let me know.I would really appreciate that and it will be a great help for me.Iam also searching for any work from home programs, but people say that u will face problems from INS during tax filing. Is it true ?

Is there any means of making money by cash ?
thanks a lot for ur suggestion.

[akash1234]

Hi Sunil,

Getting a baby in US is not at all a problem so long as you have a good health insurance. If you Hubby's company is providing yopu with health insurance, (Nothing like it), check the benefits you are entitled to regarding Maternity benefits & if it is ok go ahead with your plan of haveing a baby here. Yes, once you have a baby you'll be getting v less time to get bored. But again remember that it is a big responsibility & only u & ur hubby will have to do all the work(not like desh where you'll get ur mom-dad or MIL-FIL's help). So keep that it mind too
All the best. :)