m2003
10-15-2003, 09:22 AM
my mother in law recently had a stroke but recovered fully. but in the past 2 weeks alone she has been in ICU for 5 days and 4 more days in general ward. She is heavy diabetic + coupled with high pressure. Her pressure and sugar go out of range every week and she needs to be hospitalised.
All relatives feel that she has to be brought to USA since both her sons are here. Though the sons feel it is insane to bring her here in view of her medical condition - they are under immense pressure from others .
She has no relatives or neighbours who will help - she has a bad tongue and picks up a fight with everyone. Her husband passed away last year. She wants to be in
USA and is pestering her sons to bring her here. Incidentally in the past 2 yrs time she has been here 3 times. she left to India in july 2003.
Please advise whether it would be wise to bring her? Also could you please advise on roughly cost aspect for treatment for stroke or paralysis or fainting spells that need immediate attention and domestic help like a live-in nurse to take care of her? what type of insurance can one go in for?
Thanks
All relatives feel that she has to be brought to USA since both her sons are here. Though the sons feel it is insane to bring her here in view of her medical condition - they are under immense pressure from others .
She has no relatives or neighbours who will help - she has a bad tongue and picks up a fight with everyone. Her husband passed away last year. She wants to be in
USA and is pestering her sons to bring her here. Incidentally in the past 2 yrs time she has been here 3 times. she left to India in july 2003.
Please advise whether it would be wise to bring her? Also could you please advise on roughly cost aspect for treatment for stroke or paralysis or fainting spells that need immediate attention and domestic help like a live-in nurse to take care of her? what type of insurance can one go in for?
Thanks